I mean, sometimes you don’t expect to get all hot and bothered and then what are you going to do? For sure you can say no and zip your pants back up, but how many of us have actually done that?
It’s not as easy as it sounds, we’re animals. And by animals, I mean, we tunnel vision it when it comes to being in the moment. So, if you’re thinking about trying the pull out method, here are some things you should know.
1.It’s not 100% effective.
Listen, no contraceptive is 100% effective. However, using a condom or birth control is better at preventing pregnancy than the pull out method. It’s not that the pull out method doesn’t work, it does. The problem is the guy pulling out.
The challenge for men is pulling out the penis before ejaculation. Because, well, it feels really good. If I was a guy, I would probably struggle with this as well. So, it’s basically about timing. If your partner is always late to work, well, maybe use a condom.
2.What about pre-cum?
There’s a lot of confusion about pre-cum. But, after some research, it’s been discovered that pre-cum does contain active sperm. However, pre-cum is made up of one-third of active sperm, so though there is sperm in pre-cum, it’s a smaller amount than during ejaculation.
This doesn’t mean the female can’t get pregnant, because she still can. So even if you do pull out in time, there’s still a chance for pregnancy.
3.The pros to pulling out.
Though the pull out method gets a bad rap, there are some pros to it. It just depends on your situation. The pull out method doesn’t cost you anything, you don’t have to take hormones, no doctor’s prescription, it can be used in the moment, and you don’t need to prepare in advance.
4.The cons to pulling out.
Of course, the number one problem is the risk. Particularly, if the man doesn’t pull out on time. Not to mention, you also have pre-cum to worry about.
In addition, pulling out doesn’t secure you from contracting an STI. Because you’re not wearing a condom, you increase your chances of contracting one, especially if you’re using this method during a one night stand.
If you have a committed partner, then, your odds are lower of getting an STI—unless he’s one of those guys that has a wandering eye.
5. Have a backup plan.
If you’re going to use the pull out method, then you should always be prepared for just in case it goes wrong. For example, he forgets to pull out. So, make sure you have access to emergency contraception and a condom, in case you have some suspicions. However, if you’re suspicious, perhaps don’t have sex with him.
What can I say, having sex is fun and though wearing a condom is a good idea, sometimes it doesn’t happen. If you’re not prepared at least you now know some facts about the pull out method.
~LovePunky
