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Many people believe that long distance relationships are never going to work out. Your family may discourage it, and some of your best friends may advise you not to take it too seriously, in case you get your heart broken.

Nobody says it is going to be easy, the extra distance makes many things unachievable. Things could get complicated, and you could get sad and lonely at times. But things don’t have to be like this, especially in this era of the internet maintaining a long-distance relationship may not as difficult as before. To easy up things for you, here are some tips on how to keep your long distant relationship going.

1.Avoid Over Communicating

It is unwise to be overly “sticky” and possessive. You two don’t really have to communicate 12 hours a day to keep the relationship going. Many couples think that they need to compensate for the distance by doing more. This is not true. And it might only make things worse. Soon you would get tired of talking and you might lose interest in each other. It’s really about teasing at the right moments and tugging at the right spots.

2. See It As An Opportunity

“If you want to live together, you first need to learn how to live apart.” 

View it as a learning journey for the both of you. See it as a test of your love for each other. As the Chinese saying goes, “Real gold is not afraid of the test of fire.” Instead of thinking that this long-distance relationship is pulling you two apart, you should believe that through this experience, the both of you will be bound together even stronger.

3.Set some ground rules to manage your expectations.

Both of you need to be clear with what you expect of each other during this long-distance relationship. Set some ground rules so that none of you will do things that will take the other party by surprise.

4.Do things together

Play an online game together. Watch a documentary on YouTube or Vimeo at the same time. Sing to each other on Skype while one of you plays the guitar. “Take a walk together” outside while video-calling each other. Go online-shopping together and buy each other gifts. You really have to be creative and spontaneous about it.

5.Visit Each Other

Visits are the highlight of every long distance relationship.

After all the waiting and yearning and abstinence, you finally get to meet each other to fulfil all the little things like kissing, holding hands, etc. which are all common to other couples but so very special and extra intimate for people in long distance relationships.

With these tips at hand get ready for an interesting and thriving LDR.

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